Oct 17, 2007

The Mommy Ring


This is the ring I got my Mom for her birthday. I learned alot about how life can change, and how strong the Mother-daughter relationship can be despite 30 years of separation. My Mom had her share of demons and had to break her cycle of abusive men and drugs. She's paid her dues and now is such a remarkable women. This summer taught me that it's never too late if you're willing to work on it. I found that she and I are kindred spirits of a sort because we are almost identical in our ways of doing things. None of it learned, but innate. Neither miles nor years have taken that away. The women I was so hard on for so many years is actually a big part of me and who I am. I am glad I found out how much I love and cherish her before it was too late.
Thank you Mom. I love you.

18 comments:

Unknown said...

That's a lovely ring and I'm so glad you have discovered how much your mum means to you despite everything life has thrown at both of you. There's nothing worse than living with regret in that respect.

Kelly said...

I love the ring it is really pretty.

Anonymous said...

Beautiful ring and post.
I'm glad this relationship was healed before it was too late.:)
tc

eric1313 said...

You are a great daughter to her, I'm sure. I love my mom, too. She was our main example of how to go about life.

The older we get, the more we appreciate that, too.

It's good that you can express those feelings, and not close them up. And never is it too late to tell your mom how much you love her.

Peace out.

Pookie said...

Beautiful Sentiment and Ring! I'm so happy for the both of you.

Mazal Tov!

MacGuffin said...

Very nicely conveyed, sweetie.

Ultra Toast Mosha God said...

This was sweet

Diamond Dave Diggler said...

I actually got a little teary... I guess I'm just an emotional old fool...

robkroese said...

Very cool. It's wonderful to hear of someone who had the strength of character to break out of a destructive cycle like that. And great that you can appreciate it.

Mike Minzes said...

The ring is beautiful!

Moms are beautiful!

-eve- said...

Yes, that ring is really classy! Glad you and your mom are getting along so well... :-)

The Lone Beader® said...

That is so wonderful that you feel close to your mother... She will love the gift, but she will love the thought even more.

Also, thanks for stoppin by today. Cheers from Boston=:)

captain corky said...

Very nice! It's really great that you guys are able to have a relationship now.

Anonymous said...

WAKE UP EVERYONE..It's a beautiful day in our neighborhood.:)
Do you like my sweater? of course you do.
Watch me tie my shoes..umm
wore the velcro ones today
Let's go see what Henrietta Pussycat is up to.
Bad Kitty!!

tc

Blancodeviosa said...

Pauline- I am too. I've discovered that she is a diamond in the rough.

myutopia- i think she will like it. i hope...

cat- HI!!!! Top of the morning to YA! sounds like you've stumbled into the catnip again..
ahahaha.. silly cat.

eric- thanks. i am very happy about the way it's all turned out with us.

pook- mozel tav to you sweetness

mac- thanks babe! ;)

ultra- awe..thanks

cowboy- damn you're making me teary eyed. it's a good thing


qodf- i am very happy about this reunion. she is absolutley amazing!


diesel- yes, she is strength. she has more courage than almost everyone else i know.


mike- yep, mom's are fantabulous.


eve- yes indeed. me too :)


beader- i could send her a card board hat and she would love it.


corky- me too! life can surprise you sometimes for the good

Nikki Neurotic said...

Your mom is lucky to have a daughter that understands her like you seem to. That's a really nice ring, she is totally deserving...I hope she has a good birthday.

Guilty Secret said...

Beautiful!

(The ring is lovely too)

Tamara said...

Beautiful ring, I am glad you and your mom have reunited there is nothing like family to make you feel whole.